Anonymous Golden Child

A Journey Through Healing to Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse


This blog is dedicated to helping narcissistic abuse survivors, codependents and people who have personality disordered individuals in their lives. Being a narcissistic abuse survivor myself, I have gained a wealth of knowledge and received so much support through online communities and other resources. My hope is to help others by sharing my stories and the information that I have found useful along the way.

One of the main things that I have learned is that we can never change the behaviour of others, the work always begins with ourselves. In the beginning when I heard this I thought that it was ridiculous because I could see that my partner was the one who needed all of the help. But after some self reflection and digging deep, I could see that I had weak boundaries, a lack of self- esteem, and I did not love myself.

The journey to healing is on going and there is so much to learn, however being humble enough to be the student and continuing to learning is what I believe adds richness to our lives. There is comfort in sharing stories and viewpoints, and mostly knowing that you are not alone.